I was a teenager when I first watched porn and it completely ruined my understanding of sex and intimacy. Today almost everything that you interact with on a daily basis (like movies, tv shows, commercials, newspapers, friends, etc) has the potential to put an unhealthy thought in your mind and lustful desires in your heart.
After I received Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior, I truly had to put a lot of effort into renewing my mind to God's idea about sex, intimacy and woman. It did not happen instantaneously but eventually I was able to set myself free. In this post I am going to lead you through some things thats set me free from this great evil.
I believe no true transformation can begin without accepting Jesus Christ as Lord and Saviour. To accept Jesus as your Lord means that you are ready to give Him authority over your life and do what He says. (Luke 6:46) To accept him as your Savior means that you believe He died for the forgiveness of your sins, was buried and rose again on the third day. I am going to assume that you already have a revelations of these things in this post.
#1
One of the truths I learnt was what sex and intimacy is really supposed to be like. God told me that it was time for me to understand how joyous sex can really be in marriage. This video really answered a lot of questions. Alpha Marriage Course - Good Sex - Video
#2:
This truth that I stumbled on really made me hate porn. I was supernaturally led to this website: http://thepinkcross.org/
The autobiographies of ex-porn stars on this website were shocking. http://thepinkcross.org/pinkcross_articles
When women began to pour their hearts out in those articles I began to see the hurt in them. Women do not want to be treated like they are treated in porn. They do not like it one bit.
In those articles one of the ex-porn stars said: I would say that it isn't all glamour and there may be times that you could find yourself being coerced or violated and that you could contract HIV and you can wind up empty and soul less and alone in life...like me. Women are NOT objects and we don't want to have our insides pounded out and we don't want to be degraded and that we are real people with real hearts and real personalities. It’s sick that porn viewers want to watch women being violated.
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The third truth that followed was yet another eye-opener. You will be surprised to know that most of the photograhs of woman that turn you on are not even real. Excuse me for the language in this video but I do encourage you to check it out: http://youtu.be/du2FAiplzSw
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